It just isn't as good, what now?

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by Billy53, Jun 4, 2018.

  1. Billy53

    Billy53 Member

    So I have been PMO free for over two years and I just don't find sex with a real person as good as edging myself as I did for so many years. Sex with another person falls short by a long ways of the orgasms I got in the past. I think after two years this is as good as it is going to get. I am holding out but feeling very depressed about the whole outcome. I was so excited to get back to what was normal when this began and now I feel less than joyful about the outcome.

  2. doneatlast

    doneatlast Active Member

    Is the sex you're speaking of hooking up, or a real relationship? If you just want a dopamine rush and orgasm... yeah, PMO is probably going to be better. If you're really seeking connection and relationships with someone, then I'd find it hard to believe that PMO even compares. Just my opinion...
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  3. Billy53

    Billy53 Member

    In many ways I agree with you. The new connection with another person is wonderful. But then we make love and I enjoy sharing this intimate moment with someone but then when it is over I am left feeling like "That's it?" regarding the making love part. It causes me to not be really interested in having sex again. The connection as I say is great and that I would really like to continue but the boredom with sex has already cost me two relationships over the past couple of years and I think the person I am seeing now is about over it with me because I don't enjoy sex with them. I am not sure how to fix this.....?

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