Giving this forum another go.

Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by Gone fishing, Jul 20, 2016.

  1. Lowdo

    Lowdo Active Member

    Oh yeah - I think we all know that feeling. :-(

    The thing is to remind yourself what you really want, pick yourself up and keep going. It's bloody hard tho! Will b thinking of you...
     
  2. Billy B.

    Billy B. PMO is NOT an option!

    Too bloody, true.
     
  3. 40New30

    40New30 Keep going

    It's like a drug or alcohol binge, welcome back.
     
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  4. Billy B.

    Billy B. PMO is NOT an option!

    At least with Rebooting, the pain has a purpose.
     
  5. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    Yup. It lays waste to our personality. We're in this for the long-haul and that means forever.

    Peace!
     
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  6. 40New30

    40New30 Keep going

    It's a beast, nobody knows better than us, bro.
     
  7. newleaf63

    newleaf63 Member

    thinking of you nofap, i know what your feeling, i hope our paths can cross again somewhere down the line.
    shit aint it?
     
  8. 40New30

    40New30 Keep going

    Me too, nofap.
     
  9. Billy B.

    Billy B. PMO is NOT an option!

    As above.
     
  10. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    You feel the tug or you engage in the tug? If it's the latter then why do you think that you are only making it 30 days?
     
  11. 40New30

    40New30 Keep going

    My plan has always been to leave the house and call a friend of family member, it's worked for me. Just another idea for you. I like it because you're leaving the house.

    Having a plan for the urges is critical because, as we all know, most of the time everything is cool and then an urge hits out of the blue. We have to be ready for them, it's in these moments that the battle is won or lost.

    Most of the time all is quiet on the front, but we know the attack is coming eventually.
     
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  12. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    Oh, boy. So true!

    Do whatever works. I find sitting is really the worst thing I can do, but everyone is different. I'm grateful I can go out in my yard at this time of year. Maybe watch the movie at a coffee shop.
     
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  13. Billy B.

    Billy B. PMO is NOT an option!

    I found having a list of alternatives to choose from helped.
     
  14. NCBob

    NCBob The 11th commandment: Thou shalt not peek:-)

    Thanks for the reminder, Nofapado:)
     
  15. NCBob

    NCBob The 11th commandment: Thou shalt not peek:-)


    Agreed, Saville. If I remain sitting, I'm doomed...
     
  16. 40New30

    40New30 Keep going

    Porn is the epitome of a selfish act...but worse than that it gives you the exact opposite of what you desire... if you're after love, it takes that away; if you're after sex, it takes that ability. It is obviously of-the-devil...for does the devil not make grand and false promises?

    If the Devil exists he is most definitely laughing at the carnage.
     
  17. Libertad

    Libertad Well-Known Member

    So true.
     
  18. fcjl8

    fcjl8 The only path for me

    How are you doing Nofapado?.... stay strong brother!
     
  19. Billy B.

    Billy B. PMO is NOT an option!

    Yup, don't be a stranger. ;)
     
  20. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    Howdy! How are things, bro'?
     

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