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Re: Shemale Porn is a Terrible Addiction
« Reply #75 on: July 30, 2013, 10:57:09 PM »

Dozens?  That means least 24.  Can they come here and vouch for you?  From what I've seen you are probably the #1 high post count, unhelpful and negative poster on this board.  If you can't prove us wrong then consider taking a break from the internet, stop listening to that banal music you proudly link to in your signature, go take in some sunshine and fresh air.  Oh I forgot, you can't go outside or else you'll get mobbed by cooch.



Yes I mean dozens of people and that's no exaggeration. I get messages every other day from members asking me for advice about a range of different issues and I always help them. So I cant be that negative if people come flocking to me for help. And they are clearly not all going to come forward as not all of them will be checking this thread out or be online to post.

I don't believe being honest is being negative but being realistic. Sometimes the truth isn't nice and smily and safe so maybe that's why you get the impression that I'm negative. Telling people to come to terms with themselves and their sexuality instead of creating these new age terms such as HOCD/ TOCD that don't make any sense just to kid themselves that it's porn's fault.

btw you don't know how I spend my time so don't make some stupid assumptions.

I never said I would get mobbed but likely have to turn down advances that I normally get from women if I went to that festival which I was offered to attend. I'm sorry if that makes you feel a little hurt and insecure inside, but its true.


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Re: Shemale Porn is a Terrible Addiction
« Reply #76 on: July 30, 2013, 11:58:03 PM »
It's really quite simple though:

Did your interest in tranny's came with porn? Did it go away with porn? If you answer a yes to these questions, then you're pretty safe.

Metal I really don't understand why it's so hard for you to understand this? Why it's all bullshit to you, simply because it doesn't fit in your view? We have seen the gay guys getting addicted to straight porn on this website. Did this guy start out with straight porn? Or was it gay porn? And if he watches gay porn can he still get turned on by it? That's how you can tell the difference between sexual escalation and a real preference for something.

It's funny that you mention these guys on that forum, these guys arn't porn addicts. At the beginning of my "porn carreer" I would have probably held the same view, but nonetheless it ended with shemale porn. And this was after straight porn wasn't exciting anymore.

Here's a good article to tell the difference between a closet homosexual and a guy with HOCD:

http://www.brainphysics.com/lifestyle/ocd/im-not-gay-and-you-arent-either-the-truth-about-hocd

You should particurarily pay attention to this passage:

The instances of a straight person "finding out" they're gay through HOCD episodes are so statistically small as to be less than flukes.


And I actually wished people would stop dragging in Gary with this. It's NOT Gary that came up with this theory, he just mentions what guys are reporting and he looks for scientific reasons behind it. If you want to call this "us worshipping Gary", be my guest dude but you're really ignoring a lot of information here.

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ask-us-iam-attracted-to-gay-transsexual

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« Reply #77 on: July 31, 2013, 12:17:51 AM »
It's really quite simple though:

Did your interest in tranny's came with porn? Did it go away with porn? If you answer a yes to these questions, then you're pretty safe.

Metal I really don't understand why it's so hard for you to understand this? Why it's all bullshit to you, simply because it doesn't fit in your view? We have seen the gay guys getting addicted to straight porn on this website. Did this guy start out with straight porn? Or was it gay porn? And if he watches gay porn can he still get turned on by it? That's how you can tell the difference between sexual escalation and a real preference for something.

It's funny that you mention these guys on that forum, these guys arn't porn addicts. At the beginning of my "porn carreer" I would have probably held the same view, but nonetheless it ended with shemale porn. And this was after straight porn wasn't exciting anymore.

Here's a good article to tell the difference between a closet homosexual and a guy with HOCD:

http://www.brainphysics.com/lifestyle/ocd/im-not-gay-and-you-arent-either-the-truth-about-hocd

You should particurarily pay attention to this passage:

The instances of a straight person "finding out" they're gay through HOCD episodes are so statistically small as to be less than flukes.


And I actually wished people would stop dragging in Gary with this. It's NOT Gary that came up with this theory, he just mentions what guys are reporting and he looks for scientific reasons behind it. If you want to call this "us worshipping Gary", be my guest dude but you're really ignoring a lot of information here.

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ask-us-iam-attracted-to-gay-transsexual

Excuse my ignorance, but where is the science in all this? All I see is some anecdotal theories suggesting that anxiety may cause some guys to think they're gay.

And of course there is the argument of novelty and escalation which I believe is a base simplification of a much more deeper and complex matter.

I think it boils down to an internal genetic pre-disposition for homosexual tendancies as without it there is no chance of any consideration for seeking out such encounters.

I think some of you would do well to have a read of this article which analyses what is the cause of homosexuality.

You have to excuse that there is no mention of gary wilson in the references but there are references from scientists, research facilities and psychiatrists who've done extensive study on the subject.

http://www.cmf.org.uk/publications/content.asp?context=article&id=630

 

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« Reply #78 on: July 31, 2013, 12:35:41 AM »
I learned in a psychology course last year that:

We are not positive yet of the cause(s) of homosexuality. However, a popular theory (from whom I forget) is that after the 1st born son, the mother has some changes that occur in her body (which I also forget specifics) and any sons after that may be homosexual due to these changes

I thought about any homosexuals I know from high school or whatever, and none of them are 1st born sons! They all have an older brother. What about you guys?



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« Reply #79 on: July 31, 2013, 01:10:04 AM »
I'm getting bored of this....

Read that links, he uses animal studies to back up his claims. Combined with the anecdotes from guys, I feel that this has some proof.

It's really quite simple though:

Did your interest in tranny's came with porn? Did it go away with porn? If you answer a yes to these questions, then you're pretty safe.

Metal I really don't understand why it's so hard for you to understand this? Why it's all bullshit to you, simply because it doesn't fit in your view? We have seen the gay guys getting addicted to straight porn on this website. Did this guy start out with straight porn? Or was it gay porn? And if he watches gay porn can he still get turned on by it? That's how you can tell the difference between sexual escalation and a real preference for something.

It's funny that you mention these guys on that forum, these guys arn't porn addicts. At the beginning of my "porn carreer" I would have probably held the same view, but nonetheless it ended with shemale porn. And this was after straight porn wasn't exciting anymore.

Here's a good article to tell the difference between a closet homosexual and a guy with HOCD:

http://www.brainphysics.com/lifestyle/ocd/im-not-gay-and-you-arent-either-the-truth-about-hocd

You should particurarily pay attention to this passage:

The instances of a straight person "finding out" they're gay through HOCD episodes are so statistically small as to be less than flukes.


And I actually wished people would stop dragging in Gary with this. It's NOT Gary that came up with this theory, he just mentions what guys are reporting and he looks for scientific reasons behind it. If you want to call this "us worshipping Gary", be my guest dude but you're really ignoring a lot of information here.

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ask-us-iam-attracted-to-gay-transsexual

You have to excuse that there is no mention of gary wilson in the references but there are references from scientists, research facilities and psychiatrists who've done extensive study on the subject.

http://www.cmf.org.uk/publications/content.asp?context=article&id=630


Last time I checked Gary is not a researcher when it comes to homosexuality. We also arn't discussing homosexuality, we're discussing HOCD, which is different.

Did you even read that link where they specifically state that with HOCD there is a very small that the person turns out to be gay?

For me it's plain and simple, I'm not attracted to cock's. Yuck....


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« Reply #80 on: July 31, 2013, 02:02:12 AM »
It's really quite simple though:

Did your interest in tranny's came with porn? Did it go away with porn? If you answer a yes to these questions, then you're pretty safe.

Metal I really don't understand why it's so hard for you to understand this? Why it's all bullshit to you, simply because it doesn't fit in your view? We have seen the gay guys getting addicted to straight porn on this website. Did this guy start out with straight porn? Or was it gay porn? And if he watches gay porn can he still get turned on by it? That's how you can tell the difference between sexual escalation and a real preference for something.

It's funny that you mention these guys on that forum, these guys arn't porn addicts. At the beginning of my "porn carreer" I would have probably held the same view, but nonetheless it ended with shemale porn. And this was after straight porn wasn't exciting anymore.

Here's a good article to tell the difference between a closet homosexual and a guy with HOCD:

http://www.brainphysics.com/lifestyle/ocd/im-not-gay-and-you-arent-either-the-truth-about-hocd

You should particurarily pay attention to this passage:

The instances of a straight person "finding out" they're gay through HOCD episodes are so statistically small as to be less than flukes.


And I actually wished people would stop dragging in Gary with this. It's NOT Gary that came up with this theory, he just mentions what guys are reporting and he looks for scientific reasons behind it. If you want to call this "us worshipping Gary", be my guest dude but you're really ignoring a lot of information here.

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ask-us-iam-attracted-to-gay-transsexual

Excuse my ignorance, but where is the science in all this? All I see is some anecdotal theories suggesting that anxiety may cause some guys to think they're gay.

And of course there is the argument of novelty and escalation which I believe is a base simplification of a much more deeper and complex matter.

I think it boils down to an internal genetic pre-disposition for homosexual tendancies as without it there is no chance of any consideration for seeking out such encounters.

I think some of you would do well to have a read of this article which analyses what is the cause of homosexuality.

You have to excuse that there is no mention of gary wilson in the references but there are references from scientists, research facilities and psychiatrists who've done extensive study on the subject.

http://www.cmf.org.uk/publications/content.asp?context=article&id=630

Nothing you've posted actually refutes escalation theory to HOCD except some vague hypotheses that it's a base simplification. At least normal escalation theory lines up with what the community experience.
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Re: Shemale Porn is a Terrible Addiction
« Reply #81 on: July 31, 2013, 08:32:07 AM »
I've mentioned this in a few other threads and some guys have found it helpful. I am a gay guy who knows hundreds of gay dudes. One thing gay guys talk about when they are getting to know each other is their coming out stories. So I've heard hundreds of these. They vary a fair amount --- but never, NEVER have I heard a gay guy say that they were straight, but started watching Tranny porn and discovered that they are gay. Never. Seems to me that tranny porn is strictly a straight-guy thing.

Speaking from more personal experience, I am 100% gay, but my porn addiction got to a point where I could ONLY get turned on by watching brutal str8 porn. So, my brain was definitely mixing it up, and if there wasn't a woman being humiliated or roughed up in the video, it did nothing for me. But never for a minute did tranny porn do anything for me. Take that for what you will.

Lastly, I think that Gary Wilson is really right when he writes that if you want to understand your core sexual orientation, imagine what gender(s) you'd like to be on a date with ... holding hands, smooching romantically. If it's a guy, then you're gay. Celebrate! If it's a girl, you're straight. Celebrate! Either? Celebrate! And get on with life.


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« Reply #82 on: July 31, 2013, 08:51:29 AM »
I've mentioned this in a few other threads and some guys have found it helpful. I am a gay guy who knows hundreds of gay dudes. One thing gay guys talk about when they are getting to know each other is their coming out stories. So I've heard hundreds of these. They vary a fair amount --- but never, NEVER have I heard a gay guy say that they were straight, but started watching Tranny porn and discovered that they are gay. Never. Seems to me that tranny porn is strictly a straight-guy thing.

Speaking from more personal experience, I am 100% gay, but my porn addiction got to a point where I could ONLY get turned on by watching brutal str8 porn. So, my brain was definitely mixing it up, and if there wasn't a woman being humiliated or roughed up in the video, it did nothing for me. But never for a minute did tranny porn do anything for me. Take that for what you will.

Lastly, I think that Gary Wilson is really right when he writes that if you want to understand your core sexual orientation, imagine what gender(s) you'd like to be on a date with ... holding hands, smooching romantically. If it's a guy, then you're gay. Celebrate! If it's a girl, you're straight. Celebrate! Either? Celebrate! And get on with life.

Now where are you metal to tell this guy that hes really straight but has just repressed his sexuality his whole life by pretending to be gay? Because thats essentially  what you told me on the last page when I pretty much described verbatum what Bluesky is saying here about escalating from straight porn to shemale porn. Please tell  me you wont be a hypocrite and pretend it doesnt work both ways. Cuz Id love you to tell skyblue hes REALLY straight since he escelated to straight porn. Im waiting.

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« Reply #83 on: July 31, 2013, 09:21:10 AM »
I've mentioned this in a few other threads and some guys have found it helpful. I am a gay guy who knows hundreds of gay dudes. One thing gay guys talk about when they are getting to know each other is their coming out stories. So I've heard hundreds of these. They vary a fair amount --- but never, NEVER have I heard a gay guy say that they were straight, but started watching Tranny porn and discovered that they are gay. Never. Seems to me that tranny porn is strictly a straight-guy thing.

Speaking from more personal experience, I am 100% gay, but my porn addiction got to a point where I could ONLY get turned on by watching brutal str8 porn. So, my brain was definitely mixing it up, and if there wasn't a woman being humiliated or roughed up in the video, it did nothing for me. But never for a minute did tranny porn do anything for me. Take that for what you will.

Lastly, I think that Gary Wilson is really right when he writes that if you want to understand your core sexual orientation, imagine what gender(s) you'd like to be on a date with ... holding hands, smooching romantically. If it's a guy, then you're gay. Celebrate! If it's a girl, you're straight. Celebrate! Either? Celebrate! And get on with life.

Good point, and it goes the other way as well. Transgender women aren't into gay guys either, only straight or "straight acting" guys. Their ads on Craigslist are almost always seeking straight jock types. Strange scene.

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« Reply #84 on: July 31, 2013, 09:27:54 AM »
It can easily be the case that he is bi-sexual and there is nothing unheard of about that.

Anyway I'm tired of this debate, because you guys have convinced yourselves that you're straight when in fact a true straight person would be repulsed by the sight of someone elses dick let alone be capable of sucking one and receiving one anally.

In my book and the rest of humanity's, if you get turned by a guy then you're either bi or gay. The same as if a peddo watches kiddy porn is then considered a peado. He can't then turn around and say that he suffers from POCD and expect people to take him seriously.

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« Reply #85 on: July 31, 2013, 09:38:47 AM »
User "Metal" in a nutshell: 1298 post about his bullshit.

Dude, you don't seem to understand that a shemale is practically not a male. How do you explain that when I watched shemale stuff I couldn't get hard on just any shemale, the shemale had to look as female-ish as possible. If I saw any sign of masculinity in the shemale (except its dick), that would automatically turn me off. I liked the fake cock photoshopped female pornstar pictures the most.

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« Reply #86 on: July 31, 2013, 09:46:58 AM »
User "Metal" in a nutshell: 1298 post about his bullshit.

Dude, you don't seem to understand that a shemale is practically not a male. How do you explain that when I watched shemale stuff I couldn't get hard on just any shemale, the shemale had to look as female-ish as possible. If I saw any sign of masculinity in the shemale (except its dick), that would automatically turn me off. I liked the fake cock photoshopped female pornstar pictures the most.

This I remember vividly as well when I was into tranny porn. They had to look feminine, the moment I saw a large jaw or broad shoulders it was an immediate turn off!

+1 to what Blue Sky said

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« Reply #87 on: July 31, 2013, 09:50:53 AM »
Apparently it's important to some guys to identify as straight regardless of the genitalia of the person they have sex with. To each his own. It's important to trannies that the guys they're with identify as straight too, so it works out.

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« Reply #88 on: July 31, 2013, 10:05:14 AM »
User "Metal" in a nutshell: 1298 post about his bullshit.

Dude, you don't seem to understand that a shemale is practically not a male. How do you explain that when I watched shemale stuff I couldn't get hard on just any shemale, the shemale had to look as female-ish as possible. If I saw any sign of masculinity in the shemale (except its dick), that would automatically turn me off. I liked the fake cock photoshopped female pornstar pictures the most.

You obviously desire the best of both worlds which is why those who seek out ladyboy porn are termed bi-sexual.

If it makes you sleep easier at night then don't pay any mind to rational thought and what I'm saying here.

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« Reply #89 on: July 31, 2013, 10:10:12 AM »
those who seek out ladyboy porn are termed bi-sexual
You are so wrong.

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« Reply #90 on: July 31, 2013, 10:12:35 AM »
those who seek out ladyboy porn are termed bi-sexual
You are so wrong.

My mistake, I should have said those who seek out the material and choose to have sexual encounters with them are termed bi-sexual

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« Reply #91 on: July 31, 2013, 10:14:18 AM »
In my book and the rest of humanity's, if you get turned by a guy then you're either bi or gay. The same as if a peddo watches kiddy porn is then considered a peado. He can't then turn around and say that he suffers from POCD and expect people to take him seriously.

O dear, I've said this already.
Children are a creation of God or nature however you believe. Trannies are a creation of Frankenstein.

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