I don't think that this is perception, it is really from your hard-gained charisma. I had 45 of rebooting then relapse and I had a few days, where my charisma was just infectious. My eyes brightened my skin looked better and I had much confidence. And well, women love the confidence.
The real questions is actually , how a person could develop into an unattractive person? My suggestion is that most rebooters have a strong libido ( over the average), so they just did not know what to do with their sexual energy, so they decided to watch porn , like the slogan " that's better than nothing".
And that's probably why many men have so strong benefits: Because they really have a big libido, and this means also big energy. While rebooting the porn is prevented to absorb the energy, so...
That's sth. I've never understand. I always knew I am somehow a cool guy, a man who really have big potential but there was always sth. which prevented me.I mean everything we gain from the reboot , are things which we should have got already years before.