Why i'm speaking slowly ? Like in slowmotion ?

Discussion in 'Social Advice' started by aesthetics, May 27, 2016.

  1. aesthetics

    aesthetics New Member

    Hi guys. How ya doin?
    Why i'm speaking slowly ? Like in slowmotion ? I hate that because people joke about that. I'm afraid to talk because of that. I hear myself normally but people say that i'm speaking very slow.. :(
    Girls look at me a lot but when i start talking they start looking shocked lmao :D. But seriously people are fucking with me because of that.. Everyone starts talking very slow when they see me and it's very depressing.
    Do you have any idea what's going on guys ? How can i fix that.. People laugh at me and i never had a girlfriend. I had a change and still have because one slutty girls likes me, she's in my class lol and i did some crazy things before but the thing is that the other girls just ignore me because of that. :(
     
  2. Londoner

    Londoner Active Member

    Do you have a stammer or other speech impediment? Not sure who might be able to tell you for sure, but your doctor could perhaps refer you.
     
  3. urgesarehell

    urgesarehell Member

    Can you post a clip?
     
  4. pieterarons15

    pieterarons15 Member

    Talking slowly is a sign of charisma and power.

    There is a quote of "powerful people talk slow and the powerless people who operate them talk fast"

    Talking slowly and even making silences at youre sentences makes you more interesting and charismatic. Imagine if one of youre idols you like would talk slowly to you and give his full atention to you. You would feel great.

    Same goes with woman and people. If someone thinxs you are powerfull and you talk slow it gives a certain energy


    Those people who are complaining you are talking to slow are probably feeling you have more "power" and thats a good thing. So no you shouldn't change it.

    Ever watched movies of steve mqueen? sometimes he doesn't even say things if someone ask him and if he does he does it slowly and he is mister cool...

    Woman like emotions and by talking slowly you can give them a certain emotion. You give them the chills and thatss a good thing.

    If you walk to a girl you will be nervous and talk faster so if you talk slow motion you wil automaticly talk better to girls.
     
    Last edited: Apr 19, 2017
  5. alp3000

    alp3000 New Member

    Hi pieterarons15, how are you doing?

    What I understood from the post of aesthetics was that he's bothered by the fact that he speaks slowly,
    something he didn't have before. And he wants to solve the problem.

    What you are saying is a different thing. You're saying about a quality that some persons have/had, like Steve Mc Queen, of talking slowly and being powerful with others.

    So, I suppose aesthetics may be having a symptom due to the brain imbalance caused by porn addiction.

    I have something similar. In my case, I speak slowly because of brain fog. Therefore, the solution I'm seeking for is to improve rebooting, nothing else.
     
    Last edited: May 8, 2017
  6. pieterarons15

    pieterarons15 Member

    I see what you mean and i agree that it might be a cause of brain fog but he shouldn't see it as something awefull.

    i am encouriging him that it isn't a bad thing the slow talking can help him getting girls. Like he mentionst in his post girls are shocked that is sometimes a good thing most guys talk fast when they talk to girls.

    you can actually create drama if a girl ask you what do you for work? and he talks pretty slow she is like come on say it i want to know it and gets exited...

    Like what do you for work?

    Well........ I work ........ for a big company

    wich company?

    a few seconds silence a big one.

    she a wich one?

    well a lot of silence the biggest in belgium.

    trust me i became the best friend of a lot of girls because i talked to fast and answered all their questions immediatly talking slowly and mysterious is prettty good.
     
  7. Pheonix1day

    Pheonix1day New Member

    What you are experiencing is called psychomotor retardation. Its a common symptom of opiate withdrawal. With recent studies citing similar brain changes with opiate abuse and heavy stimulation to porn it makes sense you are dealing with this. Just abstain from o or any stimulation while focusing on bettering yourself and it will eventually go away, just don't expect immediate results or your sure to be discouraged. Hope my 2 cents helps keep your head
    up you will get through this.
     

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