Virgin ED with Prostitute

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by ND2040, Feb 16, 2017.

  1. ND2040

    ND2040 New Member

    I was and maybe still am a virgin. I'm 23 years old. Tonight I visited a brothel and I could hardly get an erection. Only through a Blowjob was I able to get an almost fully hard on. I had intercourse but it only lasted about 15 seconds before I lost my erection.

    I had previously masturbated that day 3 times before I visited the brothel. I masturbate usually at least 3 times a day, usually looking at porn. I can still get an erection and orgasm without porn, but it takes more effort.

    I don't want to have erectile dysfunction. I want to be able to have sex properly. I knew about porn induced erectile dysfunction before and was debating whether or not I had it. Now I am convinced I do. I now want to give up porn forever and also masturbation. If I am able able to recover from PIED then I would like to masturbate maybe 2 to 3 times a week, instead of the excess I do at the moment.

    I hope in one month if I give up porn and masturbation I will be able to have sex a lot better and I plan on using a prostitute at that time again. I read some people take a lot longer than 1 month to recover. I grew up masturbating for many years as a young child and teenager without porn, and I can still get an erection and orgasm by myself without porn.

    Does anyone relate to this? This will be the first time that I have truly tried to stop porn and drastically cut down or preferably eliminate masturbation. I am serious about this.
     
  2. Mik2

    Mik2 Aka NwaltRed

    Yeah I can relate, set realistic goals for yourself. The main goal is to cut down on the frequency and/or extremity of your porn use. You also want to avoid getting addicted to escorts/brothels. Ask yourself if it is really realistic to be cutting down masturbation so heavily? I mean if it happens as a side of effect of less porn then great, but unless you plan to visit a brothel a few times a week you will need to be realistic with your goals. You can always ramp the goals up in the future, start with something you can actually accomplish.
     
  3. biggleii

    biggleii Member

    Yup, that's your problem right there. 3 times a day is just way too much.

    Sounds like a good plan to me.

    I think you've got the right idea. Keep trying with the prostitute (if you can afford it LOL). I'm sure you'll see some progress with time.
     

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