Screw#Femdom [OPEN GROUP]

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by RolandOfGilead, Dec 12, 2014.

  1. Hello guys. English is no my first language, but I'll try to apply myself. ;)

    This is a group for people who deal with Femdom urges.
    However, the purpose of this group is not to talk about this fetish in particular all the time. Simply because I think (and I'm sure most of you also do) that the best way to get out of Porn is to focus on other things.

    That being said, I also think it could be motivating to gather together people who suffer from the same "disease". Femdom seems to be very addictive When I looked at some journals, I've seen a lot of people who struggle with femdom leaving this forum after a few posts. Like they resigned themselves. Another danger of Femdom is how it is different from traditionnal sex. When you think about it, someone who is addicted to standard porn, even "hard", will certainly reboot quicker than us. Femdom Porn is so different from real sex, so we have to be serious about this issue as rewiring may take longer time.

    If you join this group, you will prove to yourself and to others that you don't resign. When you relapse, you will get back on the horse and go back to the battle. We will fight this addiction together, however deep your fetish is.


    I wanna thank Yuri for his thread: http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=25815.0
    I had the idea to create this group before, but his thread pushed me to create it.


    PS: If you have an idea for a cooler name for the group, don't hesitate. ;D



    Rules

    - Members can come and go as they want

    - Please make an "introductory post" where you talk about your current reboot situation.

    - Please, don't be too specific when you talk about femdom situations, websites,... Some people here may not be tough enough faced to triggers.
     
  2. Yuri

    Yuri New Member

    Re: Let's get Femdom out of our lives [Open Group]

    I would suggest a shorter catchy name for the group, something like:
    screw#femdom
    nomore#femdom

    or something like that.

    meanwhile i will try recruiting people who i know on that forum have suffered with femdom addiction so that they could interact in the group. I suggest you do the same.
     
  3. Yuri

    Yuri New Member

    Re: Let's get Femdom out of our lives [Open Group]

    Just from 5 min searching I found~19 members with posts related to their femdom addiction, I have contacted them to invite them to keep an eye on this new group, and to participate whenever they feel the need to. Its amazing how the numbers affected are increasing. Those 20 people have stepped up and actually posted on their issue (which means it escalated to an extent that they felt they needed to vent out and talk about t) in under a year and half from now (most posts I've seen were in 2013, 2014)
     
  4. Yuri

    Yuri New Member

    Re: Let's get Femdom out of our lives [Open Group]

    Come on guys jump on board:

    scopescope
    journeytofreedom
    sickbump
    antonio
    steve2012
    timetoend
    chickmagnet44
    newhope972
    INEQ88
    iwanttochange
    goingtosucceed
    alex2014
    gentleman
    dcjm1984
    jmts3
    Frekky12
    17john1999
    18instantvintage(daone)
    a4c444
     
  5. NewHope972

    NewHope972 Member

    Re: Let's get Femdom out of our lives [Open Group]

    Nice idea, it'd be pretty good to talk to somebody about this specific problem ... It's not like a regular porn addiction, it's probably worse. We need to stay strong.
     
  6. Yuri

    Yuri New Member

    Re: Let's get Femdom out of our lives [Open Group]

    welcome buddy, how is it going with you recently?
     
  7. Timetoend

    Timetoend New Member

    Re: Let's get Femdom out of our lives [Open Group]

    Hi guys, when I posted my main post I actually just left it at that and sorta gave up on it. I just checked my emails and saw the invite to this. Now That I have seen it I am determined to actually try and beat this addiction once and for all. It's weird I've always been the sort of 'manly man' working out etc and then I like femdom which I find kind of ironic seeing as people don't see people that are into that stuff as 'men'. It makes me question myself ya know. And I know deep down I hate been turned on by this sort of stuff, but then there is a little person inside of me that says I love it. It's such a struggle.
     
  8. Hi Timetoend and NewHope972, welcome on board guys.

    I know how you feel man. I ended in forced feminization stuff, which is ridiculous because i'm not feminine at all in every day life. But these fantasies make me doubt, even about my sexuality and my manhood. I hate to being turned on by this, it's such a struggle indeed.
     
  9. daone

    daone Where I'm gonna be ought to be uncharted

    im in
     
  10. daone

    daone Where I'm gonna be ought to be uncharted

    BTW ive been addicted to femdom for over 10 years....i had streaks of 90+ days multiple times but kept slipping back, the only way is when you tell your brain that you have reached rock bottom...

    I've watched some of the most perverse shit because of femdom...im ashamed of myself
     
  11. NewHope972

    NewHope972 Member

    Re: Let's get Femdom out of our lives [Open Group]

    It's been pretty good, I almost left this website since it didn't offer much value to me anymore, although this persuaded me to come back. If you check my journal, you'll see that I've been trying out a new approach of masturbating once every two weeks, no-minimal fantasy involved. It helps maintain the libido, so for now I've been femdom free for quite a while. I'm quite satisfied with where I am right now, and hopefully I'll keep going and get my sex life in order once and for all. :)

    Yea, same here, the only thing we can do is get back up and try again.

    Tell me about it brother, I've been to places no man wants to be in. Although I guess there is a plus to all of this, at least now nothing surprises me anymore. After watching certain things being done to people, I don't think I would ever shame or look at somebody in disgust after they reveal what their deepest fantasies are. If a chick told me that she loved being shat on while her pussy was being penetrated with an chair leg and electrified at the same time I would just be like: oh... okay. How was your day?


    We can beat this guys, I'm certain! :)
    Btw if anyone has a real-life sexual experience while on the journey, please make sure to post it here, I'd love to hear about it!
     
  12. Welcome InstantVintage. I took a look at your spreadsheet, man, it's impressive. You can be proud of yourself.

    Interesting approach. I wonder how you can manage to not thinking about femdom when you masturbate though. Even if I don't masturbate on Porn, fantasies get into my mind all the time when I masturbate.


    Ok, so I'm sorry but I PMO'd today. (pretty lame after the beginning of this group.) I won't go in much details, but I got an answer from a domme by email which triggered me. I sent that e-mail a month ago after my first series of relapses... And when I read her answer, I was in zombie mode. I was always thinking about it, I checked several times yesterday my mails to see if she replied.
    So after the PMO, I thought about that group and I tell you that I won't binge. I promise. I put a random password on that email account so I cannot see her answer.
     
  13. timetochange87

    timetochange87 New Member

    I'll be following with interest! Currently 10 days clean and feel way better...my thread is in the 25 to 29 section under findom addiction if you want to check it out. Good luck all
     
  14. MGK

    MGK Zyzz's Legacy

    You can use https://www.futureme.org/ for passwords , set duration and send password to other email if you don't want to lose the email with a random password
     
  15. Thanks for the tip DestroyeR. Actually, it was an old e-mail account. I wanted to delete it, but Microsoft lets a 3-months duration to reactivate it.

    And welcome on this thread guys, I add you in the members'list.
     
  16. MGK

    MGK Zyzz's Legacy

    Thanks, it would be better if we could chat somewhere private tho.I don't want to spam here for example :)

    A whatsapp / skype group if your interested ?
     
  17. Yuri

    Yuri New Member

    Re: Let's get Femdom out of our lives [Open Group]

    Way to go man! I am happy this group can encourage us to re-engage our addiction & do something about it.
     
  18. Yuri

    Yuri New Member

    welcome onboard man!
     
  19. Yuri

    Yuri New Member

    good job mam, keep it up!
     
  20. Yuri

    Yuri New Member

    a whatsapp group for people who are really stuck & feel terrible could be a good idea, it allows rapid interaction in the form of encouraging words to fight the urge.
     

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