Background: ED and DE, so I stopped porn about 8 weeks ago. The first 3-4 weeks my wife and I didn't do anything, but then around week 4 we had three nights where we fooled around, but no intercourse. She tried to make me O, but I couldn't so I had to finish myself. I didn't like that, and decided to do NO PMO completely. So I reset my counter, and now I'm at almost 4 weeks no PMO. My question is about fooling around with my wife. We're doing it a lot. Mostly, I'm doing stuff to her. Kissing, touching, playing, oral, etc. She O's every time, but neither of us touch my penis. I don't MO at all. I'm really into her body, and I'm loving being with her. I get very excited. Partial erections, but I just ignore it and pay attention to her. It seems like this is perfect. I'm totally removed from artificial stimulation, and completely involved with her physically. I feel like I'm really re-wiring to her. What are your thoughts about this? Am I off base on my thinking? Does a 90 day reboot mean nothing sexual at all? Even with a real person? Thanks for your opinion. I want to get my erections back, and I want to make sure I'm doing everything I can!