Question about fooling around during reboot.

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by 57yrold, Nov 13, 2017.

  1. 57yrold

    57yrold New Member

    Background: ED and DE, so I stopped porn about 8 weeks ago. The first 3-4 weeks my wife and I didn't do anything, but then around week 4 we had three nights where we fooled around, but no intercourse. She tried to make me O, but I couldn't so I had to finish myself.

    I didn't like that, and decided to do NO PMO completely. So I reset my counter, and now I'm at almost 4 weeks no PMO.

    My question is about fooling around with my wife. We're doing it a lot. Mostly, I'm doing stuff to her. Kissing, touching, playing, oral, etc.

    She O's every time, but neither of us touch my penis. I don't MO at all.

    I'm really into her body, and I'm loving being with her. I get very excited. Partial erections, but I just ignore it and pay attention to her.

    It seems like this is perfect. I'm totally removed from artificial stimulation, and completely involved with her physically. I feel like I'm really re-wiring to her.

    What are your thoughts about this? Am I off base on my thinking?

    Does a 90 day reboot mean nothing sexual at all? Even with a real person?

    Thanks for your opinion. I want to get my erections back, and I want to make sure I'm doing everything I can!
  2. Scared Human

    Scared Human New Member

    not off-base at all, in fact it's encouraged. reboot doesn't mean nothing sexual, it means no artificial sexual stimuli; nothing fake.

    Also, I don't think you should be thinking in terms of 90-day reboots. It's not like when the 90 days are up you're going to go back to PMO, that's what got you in this mess. Plus even after you're "cured" you'll still continue to see benefits months, even years afterwards.

    another good practice is Karezza. You can find out more about it here
  3. 57yrold

    57yrold New Member

    Yeah, I'm not doing a 90 day reboot from porn. I'm never going to watch porn again. Period.

    I'm doing no MO for as long as it takes. I want my erections back, so I'm willing to wait...
  4. Dave3456

    Dave3456 New Member

    All right man . Keep it up !! Excuse the pun!

    Useful info.


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