I have found this to be utterly true this year. For years I wished to have a great sex life, with a wonderful woman who would respect and uplift me. If I'd had a better partner, I reasoned, I would've found my potential years ago and would be a happy person. Wrong! Giving up P, M, and F, I found that my life was great just as it was, if only I could embrace it. Not every day is amazing, of course, but overall everything is much better. I consciously disallow thoughts of "wishing" about something else in the future. We either act toward something or we don't. Thanks for the great post!