(English is not my native Language,jfyi) Hey Guys, I recently found out that I might have ED cause by Porn. I am 19 years old an soon will be 20. 6ft tall and 182lbs (a little fatty but still sporty : ). I will start the Story where it all began. I discovered Porn somwhere around the age of 13 and since have been using it for marturbation. With 17 I had my first resious relationship with a girl where we both wanted to have Sex together, and everything worked out fine. Weve been together 7 Months but as she had to move with her family, the long-distance relationship didnt work out that well. We´ve split up and I had a new Girlfriend a few weeks later. I just had my 19th Birthday and she was 16, and she wanted to wait for us havin sex until she would have been 17, wich was fine to me. I could have been Masturbating to achive orgasms and with her I would make out and kiss all evening long. Important fact : at this time I still would get an erectionwhile we were kissing on my Bed. She was a very shy Person and I hoped that she would have become more open to me about herself within our relationship, but no, she was not talking a lot and preferred her Hobbies and friends over me (we were only seeing each other once per week), and thats the reason why we decided to go different Paths. And then the shit began: So i just split up with that beautiful Girl, and fucked around with one girl that really liked me, but for me her body was just "okay". After 3 or 4 times of having sexual intercourse with her my Penis felt a little "weak" and wasnt that hard anymore. Could have been because I didnt like her that much as my previous Girlfriend that I was really in love with. As I couldnt reach Orgasm with that girl because I was getting weaker and weaker, I watched porn as always, because there everything was fine. Some time later the Girl left the town and I just had my Porn, as there were no Girls that I found attractive, until she came I saw a Girl with a really pretty face, a face that I adore so much that I can call it perfect. Her Body is not 10 outta 10, but I prefer her body Type over that what the majority likes. Third date and I decided that I want to have sex with her. We kiss, lay there in bed, and I keep going undressing her. She was very aroused and as I was looking at her I felt that I have butterflies in my Stomache. It sounds stuipid if I say that early, but at this point I alredy started to fall a little bit in love with her. The only Problem was that the love wasn´t getting in the Bodypart that is usually used for Love, and so I had no erection. I thought "WTF? Really? Why do I feel that close to her and really want to have sex with her, but there is nothing happening?" So I kept touching her and give her pleasure using my hands, but I couldnt have sex because of the non existant boner. After this fingering we were cuddling in bed and kissing. She was alright with it and is my Girlfriend now. Still. but the thing with my Penis has been giving me crazy thoughts. Why was it like that? The next time we met, nothing happened either :/ but after she left my appartement, I became solid rock with Porn. Mysterious. After these few times I started to google if there might be a Problem with me, and I found out that Porn may cause Ercectily Dysfunction (ED). As I was able to get hard with Porn but not without, the chances of me having a physical Problem were very low, but my Brain was fucked up because of Porn. So I decided "Man, you quit porn right now", and I did. For many guys its hard as I read here, but nothing was easier like this. I havnt watched Porn since one month and Im totally fine with it. Sometimes when I watch Dexter, the Tv-Series, there are nakey people, but then I try not to focus on them orskip forward one minute. Masturbation? Err.. I last masturbated 4 days ago. It was one month without porn and 1 Month with my new Girlfriend (GF), so I thought we can have sex finally, but nope. I googled again and found out that masturbating less or not at all will help as well to reboot. So I decided right now: "no masturbation until I can have sex with my GF" And thats where I am right now. I will start my Way of rebooting by still not watching any porn, and also stop touching myself. I will exercise a bit more, and also look at the girls in the gym. Real Girls, not that Porn shit on my Iphone. It was Easy for me to quit Porn, I dont need it. Next step is how good I am with not touching myself. I wake up with morning wood so I guess I am not that of a hopeless case, but the wa to a hard penis while with my GF is still long. My question for you guys: 1. Is my mindset right? I mean, will not touching myself help to keep/bring back my libido? (Its that I want to have sex but cant because of PornED) 2.1 I want to do Hardmode now, so no sexual arousal by porn or myself. Is it okay to be kissing my Girlfriend and stuff? Be honest please, I am confident, you cant hurt my feelings guys. 2.2 As known my Brain still is wired to Porn, and i have to cut these wires and rewire them to real girls. Is it too early to rewire with my GF because I am still attracted to Porn? 3. Any other advices guys? I am looking forward to your support, as I feel like I need peaople who I can talk with about that, and I hope that tis Forum is the right Place for that. Am already happy for any anwser below. Thank you so much Guys See you in a few days for my next report. This is day one of Hardmode ~ lets Go !