From porn to escorts

Discussion in 'Pornography Addiction' started by Whatodo, Jul 27, 2018.

  1. Whatodo

    Whatodo New Member

    Hi! New to this site and just needed to get something off My chest, I have been wathching porn since I was 11 and it is really the normal story of needing more kinky stuff. In my case this lead me to shemale porn, and I never really felt bad about it because I was always sure in my own sexuality outside of porn, I even met 3 shemale escorts and had a good time living out my fantasy, this was in a 6 month time frame from dec 2016 to june 2017, for 1 year I did not do it again even tho I was tempted some times, then eventually 1 year since my last time I saw a ts escort again on 27 june 2018 but after this time I feel really bad and feel like I have ruined myself and my life, i have Lost My appetite, cant work out like i usually do and started to have pseudoinsomnia ( for those Who know what that is) any people with advice on How to move on? I already quit porn but now i feel like My sex drive is completely gone for porn or real women...
     
  2. doneatlast

    doneatlast Active Member

    Welcome.

    Recovery won't be instantaneous. Porn makes us think we're aroused by real women, but we're aroused by porn. Porn pushes out genuine arousal. When the porn is gone it makes it seem like we've just lost our attraction to real women, but the fact is that the real attraction has been gone for a long time, we just notice it when the porn isn't there to trick us into thinking we're interested in real people. Even the experiences with the escorts likely had more to do with your attraction to the porn than the real people. It will take time to normalize, but the best thing you can do is stick to a strict reboot as much as you can. If you relapse, get back on it as soon as possible. If you started at age 11 (you didn't say your current age) then it may take some time, and there may be some bumps in the road. Ultimately you'll be able to do it and enjoy the new self that comes from it.
     
  3. Whatodo

    Whatodo New Member

    Thanks for the advice, i am 22 now, but i never really Saw porn as a problem that is what’s so wierd to me, i was never ashamed of watching porn and it was not disturbing My other activities, but Yeah gonna try this now, what would you say is best No PMO or just No PM?
     

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