First "semi" success 80 days

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Serenades, Mar 29, 2016.

  1. Serenades

    Serenades There is no reason to count days.Porn is past!

    First of all let me tell you that i've got not worst case of pied.
    Next let me tell you that at im not recoverd yet.But now i can see a successful future.

    (English is not my natural language)

    Im 25 years old with little sexual exp (never cum during intercourse)

    3 months ago i met a beutifull girl, and very quickly we ve got in relationship.
    When i went to her house guess what happened...(im lucky because we live in different cities)
    I went to an urologist and he told me that im physically fine...

    Now let me tell you about my pmo past.
    Im lucky cause i hooked into internet porn at not early age..its about 3-4 years ago.and only last 1,5-2 years i become addicted.
    I never involved into extreme genres.
    Only softcore porn and stuff with naked news.
    Im very lucky cause i found immediately YBOP (thanks god about this)
    About a month ago i met her again and i told her everything about my problem and i asked her to stop our relationship if she couldnt afford that.
    She refused (thanks thanks thanks)..
    Now About a week ago she came in to my house.(after 80 days of no PMO)
    I noticed semi erections by kissing her and erections about 80% hardness while she touching me and while she gives me oral sex.
    First 3 days i failed to get inside her.But 4rth day (with a help of 2-3 glasses of vodka) i was able to!!!
    We have sex for about 5-6 minutes until i lost my erection again.
    I didnt disapointed cause i saw an improvement and now i can imagine how i will be on day 120 or day 200..
    I ve already started to educate my urologist about PIED and he's already started to give public informations about this..
    Im not recovered but now im happy cause i know i will be..
    Before i finish this topic i want to tell you that you have to stay strong.
    Be patience and success will come..I promise you that.
    Even the worst days which you re in danger of relapse you have to ask to yourself if you re happy when you are viewing porn.NO YOU ARE NOT.
    Guys porn its not an option for me anymore.
    Be patience for as long as your brain needs.Its the best thing you can do..
    One last i want to tell you.If you have ED and you have a gf give her all day oral sex.
    Dont stop lick her clit.Girls love this very much.Mine gf told me that even i regain my erectile health to never stop doing this to her.
    Good luck my friends.
    I will update you my situation in day 120..
     
  2. dontgiveup

    dontgiveup Member

    Nice! Looking forward to see your progress
     
  3. 40New30

    40New30 Keep going

    80 Days is awesome, keep it going.
     
  4. Serenades

    Serenades There is no reason to count days.Porn is past!

    Update 120 day report

    So my gf came to my house for a couple days..
    As the time goes on im starting feel more horny when touching kissing cudding her..
    Im able to have sex with her 8/10 attemps
    Sometimes my erection quality is 80-95%
    I can have sex while she is on the top, on missionary position
    and on doggy style..
    I tried once with condom and i succeed.
    At this point i have very severe PIDE cause i cannot ejaculate at all..
    But im happy cause somtimes we had sex that lasted over an hour..
    Guys this reboot thing works..And im only on day 120..
    How i will be on day 200??

    Some additional notes..
    I have MW every day (some times very hard some times less)
    I have started notice and some slighty spontaneous erections during the day..
     
  5. Congratulations, inspiring stuff, keep going man! Not sure how I compare to your progress but also just had my first successful sex, was able to orgasm but I really need to try again soon and see if my erection strength can continue to improve and just things feel more natural. After being so severely PIED for years it was hard to relax and just enjoy it totally but now the first one and the doubt iin my mind eases like you I can only see things getting better.

    Good luck with the future, hope to see an update again when you feel its relevant.
     
  6. Serenades

    Serenades There is no reason to count days.Porn is past!

    My friend i thing that pied is not the only problem we have..I believe that we have fear back our mind over real sex.
    As the time goes on if we feel cool and pleasurable about real sex we will be 100% free and natural..
    Stay strong..We will succeed..
    And one more thing.Try to think that you want to have sex because is enjoyable..Not to test your erections..
    Pied is not the only problem..
    Behide pied where and other psychological reason that causes ED and bad sex..
    I will update my situation soon..
    Maybe day 140-150..
     
  7. Totally agree the PIED part I believe the abstaining fixed up long ago for the most part for me. The rewiring part and actual sex has always felt more performance anxiety related for me as I was so worried about not being able to get hard and embarrassing myself and upsetting the girl that I just chose to try avoid it. Now I've tasted success I'm not going back to that even if I have good attempts and bad ones.
     
  8. Serenades

    Serenades There is no reason to count days.Porn is past!

    day 140...
    My gf came again..No improvment at all.. a little bit worse than day 120.. :(
     
  9. 40New30

    40New30 Keep going

    Recovery is not linear, you could be fine tomorrow and then back to PIED the day after. Just keep going.
     
  10. wecandothis

    wecandothis Member

    Did you have sex this time? Hold on there!
     
  11. Serenades

    Serenades There is no reason to count days.Porn is past!

    yeah..5 days in a row we had sex around 15 times..but EQ was poor 60-80% needing constant stimulation during intercourse to keep my erection alive and VERY VERY severe PIDE..(no orgasm at all)
     
  12. 40New30

    40New30 Keep going

    You had sex 15 times and never O'd, you have pretty serious DE (very normal). That's probably not so bad, too many O's can definitely slow you down at this point.
     
  13. Serenades

    Serenades There is no reason to count days.Porn is past!

    Yeah i totally agree that not O at this time is good..But the problem is not to O'ing during sex my brain doesnt recognize sex such a good thing..(i was technically virgin).My brain MUST start recognize real sex with a real woman such a pleasurable thing..
    At this point i feel anxious about next time i ll meet my gf..
    I hope that in 1-2 months i will gradually reintroduced to orgasms.

    (sry for my terrible english)
     
  14. 40New30

    40New30 Keep going

    Yes, you're right. You need to rewire when you're ready, just remember to space out your orgasms. Try one every few weeks and see how you feel. Eventually you will be healed and you can do whatever you want.
     
  15. Serenades

    Serenades There is no reason to count days.Porn is past!

    Thank you for your support and for your advices..
    Hope the best for you my friend!
     
  16. 40New30

    40New30 Keep going

    You're doing great, no matter what happens you will get better because you're off porn.
     
  17. Serenades

    Serenades There is no reason to count days.Porn is past!

    So after a month i met again with my gf.
    At day 175 HM noticed the biggest improvement to my PIED.
    So thinks i noticed.
    -Semi hard erections(30-40%) during foreplay.(this is enough to penetrate with help of baby oil.no constant stimulation needed this time)
    -90% hard erections during intercourse.
    -Excessive precums when getting aroused starting to subside.
    -Never failed again to penetrate
    -Can have sex easy with condom

    the main problem now is my very serius PIDE. (i couldnt ejavulate again.although i had 4 times sex last 2-3 hours and a lot of bj's)
    Personally this doesnt worries me cause i dont feel cured-my i dont feel my body is ready to ejaculate at this time.Im happy now because from day 105-110 i constantly can have sex)
    But my gf started to worried about lack of orgasm;s from y side.
    At this point i feel that i ll never fail again to sex and i believe the good days there will be more good and bad days less bad from now and then.
     
  18. 40New30

    40New30 Keep going

    Awesome!!!

    That is very normal, it could take a while for you get rid of the DE, try not to orgasm much for at least a few months, the less the better for now. Your body will tell you what you need to do. :)
     
  19. Serenades

    Serenades There is no reason to count days.Porn is past!

    Thank u 40 one more time for your support.
    Definetly i know that i have long road ahead.
    But the good is that i feel that now im not only able to have sex
    But i also im able to keep my relationship alive.
    Also at this point im not beeing obssesed counting days and i started noticed mentally improvements.
    Also im very happy cause i never used ED drugs in order to satisfy my gf!
     
  20. Serenades

    Serenades There is no reason to count days.Porn is past!

    So last night i could reach an O in my gf's vagina..
    That was the most mindfuck feeling in my life (never cum during intercourse).
    No flatline symptoms today, libido higher than ever.
    Yesterday night it ws dificult to sleep
    so i feel a little tired today.
    I plan to O again once in 2-3 weeks.
    For next months i will space my o's to 1 or 2 a month..
     

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