A life without ejaculation

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by ukdamon, Feb 12, 2018.

  1. ukdamon

    ukdamon Trying for a life of purity

    I love my life, and I owe it to seed retention. I have sex, but for me never ejaculating is the key to being successful as a lover and as a person.

    Damon
     
  2. simon1986

    simon1986 Member

    I too felt the benefits of semen retention... Did hard-mode for 4 month, felt great in myself and became more attentive to women, a better lover and person in general. Only downside was achey balls after a while.
     
  3. lukelnc

    lukelnc New Member

    I did 114 days hard mode in first try, then I relapsed... I feel better overall when I'm not ejaculating, I feel "full", and it seems to take days of "filling" to reach that again after I ejaculate. I want to get in semen retention for real this time, I can even control the urges to go to escorts and there's no women at all in my life. But what if, by any means, I meet a girl suit for a serious relationship? What if she wants to fuck all the time? I think I've meet one or two in my life who I could be open about this, they're extremely rare. Any tips?
    I'm 65 days without PMO but only 20 days without ejaculating.
     
  4. simon1986

    simon1986 Member


    Wish I had the answer because I'm seeing a woman at the minute. We meet once or twice a week... So sex happens= no benefits from semen retention... But sex so... Can't win them all.
     
  5. ukdamon

    ukdamon Trying for a life of purity

    Interesting, I have been doing ok, I am having sex on a regular basis with no ejaculation and I feel great. I believe you can have a really good sex life without the need for ejaculation.
     
  6. ukbritishbloke

    ukbritishbloke New Member

    I understand the good feelings you can have from not ejaculating, and "feeling full". I have that good feeling now. I think semen retention is a great idea during reboot, and I want to give up masturbating for good.

    But long term? Good luck to you guys, but kinda the whole point of rebooting for me is so I can ejaculate more often in future, inside a woman's body.
     
  7. simon1986

    simon1986 Member

    Yea I want to be able to have sex as much as possible and ejaculate... With no negative effects. Currently reading the multiple orgasmic man which is about non ejaculatory orgasms... Only just started it though.
     
  8. ukdamon

    ukdamon Trying for a life of purity

    For me, I love sex and I love to make others feel good, I have found that sex is even more amazing when I don't ejaculate.
     
  9. jack91

    jack91 Find your way throuh Staff Member

    Sex without ejaculating, sounds pretty great. Something i truly would love. How long you have abstained, am i right to assume you went through relatively easy withdrawal? Its just that, if you were a regular isolated 30year old teenboy living with parents eating ssri's daily you probably would emphatised how hard the change is..
     
  10. ukdamon

    ukdamon Trying for a life of purity

    I was lucky, my parents were very strict and even locked me in chastity when I was 11. So for most of my life I have been kept pure. So I am used to no orgasm, I have lived by it all my life.
     
  11. Rengaw

    Rengaw Will log on every other week from 13/10/2016

    Interesting subject. Frankly sex without orgasm was something not fulfilling for me. When you have sex, you need to orgasm.

    However, I've found out ejaculation leads to strong withdrawal. I can't orgasm without consequences. Yesterday I met a girl and we ended up having sex, fun, loving, intercourse without ejaculation. I reaf this topic right before I met her and somehow all the pieces of the puzzle connected.

    I had a great time and she enjoyed it too, and because I did not finish I am still feeling good. Booyah!
     
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  12. ukdamon

    ukdamon Trying for a life of purity

    Thanks for your post. I know that most boys and men are reluctant to lead a life without ejaculation, but once they try it they soon realise how amazing you can feel.
     
  13. jack91

    jack91 Find your way throuh Staff Member

    That is awesome. Your words are sharp and full of meaning and personally love your message a lot. Its my aim to do what you do but right now thats too big of an leap, it might have been one great step to right direction for you but for myself thats pipedream years away, some modern cases that got addicted at adolescense and even ventured to drugs. That lot like me cant just do that huge lifestyle changes right away, need to Mo is great, need to have sex is great, there is limits what i can take, im so out of sexual energy. Cant act like guru before head works like it. I cant recharge sexual energy with abstaiment and even cant abstain that long anymore. You speak like guru, mind and brain are in your command and you know how to live to have most out of life, you have found the truth. Im so goddamn long off but someday i wish to live way you are!
     
  14. ukdamon

    ukdamon Trying for a life of purity

    Well you are certainly heading in the right direction. You know what they say 'baby steps' it will take time to learn how your body works. As time goes by you can push yourself a little further, then hopefully one day you will be the master of it. I wish you all the best, and keep in touch.
     

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