Hello, September 2011 was my last time of PMO, and my discovery of yourbrainonporn. Since then i've come a long way, with ups and downs (mostly ups lately!) and i haven't done any PM and only O with my girlfriend. Its amazing how true yourbrainonporn was, and what it has done for me. At the start i was suffering from porn induced E.D., now most of the times i get an erection easily, sometimes without my penis being touched even and with just caressing of the body. I had never thought that possible before! With this i come to a small problem i still have. Today i made love, after about 2 weeks of not doing any sex, and i did get hard pretty fast, but then we talked for about a minute or so before the actual deed, and i was losing my erection while i knew i would soon 'do it'. Why am i, after 10 months, still not completely cured and sometimes lose it a bit? Before today, for the last few months, this hasn't happened i have to say. Besides that the most important question: i notice that my 'urge'/libido before i would do PMO was bigger as my 'urge'/libido is now with my girlfriend. My libido was higher for PMO then for actual sex, even though i have more pleasure when making love to my girlfriend. In my head i go over the differences; i could do PMO for a longer time, do exactly what i liked, there was no possibility of a 'no', no performance anxiety, and i have to say that sometimes after we do have sex, my girlfriend and i get into an argument after going over the details because she wants to know my progress (i don’t know if this is a reason i still get nervous and no libido). On the other hand; i now have more pleasure when having sex then in the past with PMO... Does anyone recognize this? or maybe knows what is going on? PS thanks to Marnia and Gary for their site, and to theunderdog for starting this forum!